Our family got some tough news this week: Karen, my mother in law, has been diagnosed with endometrial cancer.
The good news is endometrial cancer is common and has a high cure rate. Karen is having a total hysterectomy next Thursday, December 30. She is also in good spirits and the doctors are hopeful.
The uncertain news is that we won’t know until a week after her surgery what stage the cancer is or if it has spread beyond her uterus.
Karen gave her blessing to share the news with you all so you’d know why I was attending so many appointments and will be playing nurse in a week. Please keep her in your thoughts.
We met with the gynecological oncology team at UVA hospital today. I took notes for her while the doctors explained the cancer and surgery. We were there for quite some time – and were all famished when we left at 3PM.
Karen wanted to take us to Anderson’s Seafood, a butcher and seafood shop that has cauldrons of soup for lunch each day, many of them seafood chowders and bisques.
Oh heavens this Oyster Brie was good!!
I couldn’t decide between a Seafood Chowder and a thick sweet Butternut Squash, so I mixed ‘em!
And gobbled down the saltines on the side
We’re all attending a festive party tonight that should be a fun way to end the day. Matt and I made a kale salad to take!
Camille says
All my best to your mother-in-law. I’m sure she’s a tough woman and she will fight it off!
Danielle in Australia! says
I’ve been a long time reader but never comment. Just wanted to say that my thoughts & prayers are with you all during the coming weeks.
Anna @ Newlywed, Newly Veg says
I’m so sorry to hear that– your family must be so worried right now. I’ll be keeping her in my thoughts and prayers!!
Jessica says
My thoughts are with your family at this time.
Heather C says
My prayers to Karen and you all, too. I know she’ll do just fine with such a great support team, please let her know many KERF readers are praying for her!!
Tess says
I’ll be keeping you all in my thoughts and prayers! Nothing’s better than soup to lift spirits 🙂
jennifer @ take the day off says
So sorry to hear about Karen. I know how close yall are and I will shoot up a quick prayer that all is well and that the cancer hasn’t spread.
Lauren says
My heart goes out to Karen, you, Matt and your family. Please let her know that she is in my prayers and I’ll be thinking about you guys during this time.
Take care Kath!
Beth @ Beth's Journey to Thin says
Wow I’m so sorry to hear. My mother had a hysterectomy several years ago, and while the surgery itself was painful, she came out better than ever. Good luck to your mother in law and you family!
Laua says
Aw Kath, my heart goes out to you, Matt and Karen. I know you are all so close. Hopefully the holidays can bring some light and joy to these scary times.
Mary says
I am praying and sending positive thoughts to your mother-in-law!
Michele @ Healthy Cultivations says
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Amanda says
I’m so sorry to hear about your MIL, Kath. I’ll be keeping her and your family in my thoughts. That’s such scary news but it sounds like the doctors are on top of it, which is awesome.
Laura says
I wish you all the best! I noticed that you have been taking her to appointments fairly frequently and was hoping she was alright. I know she appreciates you and Matt!
allie says
Many healthy thoughts to Karen.
greenbean says
Hang in there, Karen! Many, many thoughts and prayers for healing and strength.
Holly Claire Bigness says
Lots of thoughts and prayers for Karen. It’s funny, I have read your blog for so long I feel like I know your mother in law as well. She seems like an amazing, strong lady!
Love and light to you and your family! <3
Amanda (Eating Up) says
I will be thinking of Karen in these next few weeks.
Jess says
Just wanted to let you know that I will have Karen, you and your family in your thoughts. On sure she is a strong woman and she will get through this. Have a great Christmas.
Sarah @ The Strength of Faith says
Tell Karen she’s in my prayers! And you and Matt too – sending virtual hugs.
Gabriela @ Une Vie Saine says
I’m so sorry to hear this- I’ve always admired how close you seem to be with your mother in law, and I can’t imagine how hard this is for her as well as you and Matt. Keeping Karen and your entire family in my prayers!
Angie @ Musings of a Violet Monkey says
Positive thoughts to Karen now, and through her surgery next week.
I’ve helped my Gram (whom I am freakishly close to) deal with 2 bouts of cancer (breast and colon); and I feel for you and Matt, as well as Karen. It’s a stressful time for all. I’m glad you ALL are looking towards the positive!
Mmmm, soup!
~
Laura @ Backstage Pass says
So sorry to hear about Karen’s diagnosis. I will keep her in my thoughts – best wishes on her surgery and for the best possible outcome.
Jackie says
That is horrible news, but I’m sure Karen will be fine! Positive thoughts!
Sara says
I’m so sorry to hear about Karen’s diagnosis. You’ll all be in my thoughts!
Anna says
My prayers and thoughts go out to your family during this time.
Lindsay says
Sorry to hear about tough news. My mom had endometrial cancer a in 2007; She found out then a week later she had a hysterectomy, followed by 8 weeks of radiation and she has been doing absolutely fine ever since! I am sending positive thoughts your way and hope that everything goes as well for your MIL as they did for my mom. Take Care.
suki @ [Super Duper Fantastic] says
Sending positive thoughts to your MIL and your family as a whole! 🙂
Susan says
I’m so sorry to hear about the diagnosis. I’m glad that all of you are there to support her. You guys are in my thoughts! 🙂
Heather (Heather's Dish) says
sending thoughts and prayers y’alls way…it was this time last year that i found out my father had cancer, and it’s so completely scary. big hugs from colorado!
Jessica @ How Sweet It Is says
I am so sorry. Thinking of you and your family. Adding you to my prayer list!
marie says
I am so sorry to hear the bad news but am glad that Karen got a hopeful prognosis. Y’all are in my thoughts and prayers.
Melissa says
Sending so many prayers and positive, healing thoughts to you & your family.
marie says
Very sorry to hear this; it really sucks that so many people have to suffer from this disease. Stay strong.
Laura says
Hope Karen will be okay. Keep your spirits up this Holiday Season!!
RhodeyGirl says
Kath, Matt, Karen- you will all be in my prayers.
You know I can relate to this with my mom, and I just want to let you know I am here when you need me. I am sure you are unsure in some ways of how to support Karen. My mom always asked us to keep her in high spirits and to just be by her side holding her hand. I am sure that really nice fluffy slippers and robe would be nice for Karen too for the hospital stay.
I wish Karen a really fast recovery from her surgery. You will all get through this!
Stay strong.
love, S
Allie (Live Laugh Eat) says
I wish Karen all the best. I hope they come back with *relatively* good news. I have faith you’ll make a great nurse. Saltines…challenge!
Nina says
My thoughts are with you all!
Siobhan says
I will keep Karen and your family in my prayers Kath- she is lucky to have such a loving DIL to play nurse next week!
lindsay says
Taking notes is an incredible way to help…such important doctor’s visits can be overwhelming and its so important to write things down. Hope everything goes smoothly next week and that you receive good news after that…
Sandy says
Praying for Karen and for you and Matt as you help support her through the recovery. She has already made friends in Charlottesville and I’m sure the medical facility there is one of the best in the region. The combination of good friends and support and great doctors will help to make her recovery go smoothly.
Karin says
I’m a longtime reader and very infrequent commenter 🙂 My thoughts will be with all of you this upcoming week. Stay strong!
Lauren at KeepItSweet says
so sorry to hear about your mother n law! i’ll have all of you in my thoughts and am hoping for good news for you!
Caitlyn (A Spoonful of Life) says
Your family will be in my prayers.
Faith says
Oh Kath, I’m so sorry to hear about your mother in law. She’ll be in my thoughts and prayers.
Farah says
Kath I read your blog daily – several times a day, in fact, even though I don’t comment much, and I feel that I have come to know your family even though I’ve never met them. All my thoughts and prayers are with Karen – I wish her all the best.
Farah
Allison K. says
Kath,
You, Karen, Matt and the rest of your family will be in my thoughts and prayers this week.
Lilli says
My aunt received the same diagnosis last Christmas. It was definitely tough at times to keep the cheerful holiday smile on, but all you can do it stay positive, right? She had surgery as well, and is now as healthy as ever… I’ll be sending my thoughts and wishes (all the way from Canada) to Karen and your whole family!
Erica says
There’s something about seeing the word “oncology” that sort of takes your breath, huh? I’m just NOW coming to grips with the fact that I have an oncologist, and that I’m a cancer patient; and this is two years after diagnosis. But I will tell you that what you all are going through right now is the worst part of it all…the waiting, the wondering, the what-ifs, the unknown…it is truly the worst part. After my initial surgery and my treatment plan was laid out, I felt so much better and much of the anxiety was gone. So hang in there and keep focused on the positive, which it sounds like that’s what you’ve got!
I had a complete hysterectomy last Dec. as the final part of my treatment plan, and it went great. The surgery was done laproscopically and the recovery was way better than I had imagined. I got the clear to start walking after one week, and running in two. I’m sure Karen will do just fine! She’s lucky to have such great kids to take care of her!
I’ll say special prayers for your family and for Karen for this to be as simple and easy as can be! And the cancer to be completely contained:-) Best to you this Christmas season!
Kath says
Best to you too Erica
Alice says
Thinking of you all and especially of Karen! I agree with Erica, these early days are the hardest and scariest. I was diagnosed at age 30 (over 1 year ago) with rare breast cancer After my surgeries were done and I had a treatment plan, it really helped with the anxiety. It helped me to know not only what I was dealing with, but what to do about it! I highly recommend Bella Ruth Naperstack, she does guided imagery and has an amazingly calming voice. I know that you will be strong support system for Karen. Hugs Karen!
Emily @ One Sweet Vegan says
I’m so sorry, Kath! My thoughts and prayers are with you, Karen, and your family.
GB says
Kath –
I’ve read your blog for a long time but rarely ever commented. This struck a chord as I’ve been going through the same thing this month – my mother was just diagnosed with breast cancer. It’s hard going to so many appointments and having so many things uncertain during these initial stages, but soon you kind of get into a little routine. Humor is the best medicine! I’m thinking of you and Karen and hope for the best outcome possible after surgery!
Cindy says
Sorry to hear about this Kath. My thoughts and prayers are with your family during this time.
Bizzle says
Kath,
I’m so glad that you let us know. This is weird, but I was already wondering if something was up because you have mentioned appointments + Karen twice. I will light a candle for her on Christmas Eve, and think a positive thought for her each day–indefinitely.
So, SO sorry to hear this news. Best to you all.
Krystina says
Karen and your family are in my thoughts. I know she can make it through this. 🙂
Valerie @ City|Life|Eats says
Oh Kath – I am so so sorry – please know you and Matt and Karen are in my thoughts, as well as the rest of your family. Big hugs.
Kathi says
Prayers are with all of you, especially you Karen! I’m just curious if she had any symptoms? Will be keeping you in my thoughts.
Kath says
Yes, bleeding was the symptom than sent her to the doctor
Heather says
I am so sorry to hear about that. Esp right before Christmas. I will be praying for her!
Lisa (bakebikeblog) says
Oh my – Thinking of you and your family xx
eatdrinkandbemerrynyc says
Kath-
So sorry to hear this. Karen is such a vivacious woman and she will be an incredible fighter!
Sara
Vanessa says
So sorry about Karen.. You, Matt and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. Stay positive! ‘I’m sure she’ll make it through this time! She always seems in good spirits!
Mama Pea says
You guys are in my prayers.
Christine says
I’ll remember Karen in my prayers.
My mother actually had uterine cancer–though a much more rare kind (Leiomyosarcoma). We had a scary up and down (with a lot of scary downs) two year journey — but she just hit 3 years cancer free, and we could not feel more blessed.
Prayer works.
Meagan says
Wow. I will pray for your family, especially Karen. I am glad you are on top of everything though – that’s the first step! I do that with soups too, and I’m kinda glad I am not the only one!!
Justeen @ Blissful Baking says
i sorry to hear about your mother-in-law, and i hope that her surgery goes REALLY well!
carolyn says
THinking of you and your family. I am glad that you are together in the same time
carolyn says
*city* not time. 🙁
Marci says
Oh Kath, that is tough. You will be a great nurse! My mom’s hysterectomy was a long and painful recovery but it gets rid of anything that could be bad. Best wishes for an easy surgery and speedy recovery! She is lucky to have such a kind and knowledgeable son and daughter in law!
M says
Consider it done, Kath. Wishing your family only the best. Love and prayers.
Kate (What Kate is Cooking) says
So sorry to hear that 🙁 Hope everything gets better for everyone.
Maryea @ Happy Healthy Mama says
Sorry to hear about your MIL. Cancer is so scary, but I’m glad to hear her prognosis is hopeful.
Heather @ Side of Sneakers says
Aww Kath (& Matt) I’m so sorry to hear that news. I’m glad she was able to catch it and is able to get it taken care of so soon. She’ll be lucky to have you as a nurse by her side!
Sarah R says
Thoughts for Karen and your family. She seems like such a strong woman, she’ll get through this.
Kathy W. says
Please tell Karen that I am thinking about her, and hope her surgery goes well. It’s so great that you are all in the same city & are there to give her love & support!
Kathleen says
I will definitely keep Karen and the rest of you in my thoughts and prayers. I’m glad she has such a supportive and loving family to get her through the unknown right now. I’ve always admired the relationship you all have.
Quisha says
Karen must be an extremely strong woman. I’ve heard so much about her through your blog and my heart is with her and you all as well. I have Endometriosis and it’s not something that enough people are aware of. I think that just by you sharing this that more people will read up on it.
My heart is with you all and I’m sure she’ll be fine. She sounds like a strong woman. Keep us posted!!
– Q
erica says
sending positive vibes & prayers out to karen!
Liz says
So sorry to hear that your mother in law is ill. I have always thought that she seems like such a great mother in law to have! My thoughts and prayers are with her as well as your family.
Kristina says
I am a long time reader who has never commented. My thoughts and prayers are with Karen and you, her family. You all seem to be so close so the move was good for her and now she has you. The “C” word is scary but does not mean forever…Karen will come out of this. Have a wonderful holiday and remember what really counts…is love
MaryZ says
Thoughts and prayers for all of you!
Christin@purplebirdblog says
Huge prayers for Karen and all who love her and the doctors who are caring for her!
Michelle @ Give Me the Almond Butter says
I am so sorry to hear of the news. My thoughts are with you and your family.
Rose says
My thoughts are with Karen. I’m so sorry you had to get this news. But thankfully for her – she is surrounded by such wonderful children and children-in-laws. You are a great family. I will be keeping you all in my thoughts.
VeggieGirl says
Praying hard for you and your family, dear Kath **hugs**
Natalie O says
Sending love & prayer to your Mother in Law and Family 🙂
Sarah says
My prayers and thoughts are with Karen and your family. It sounds like you guys are really sticking together and will pull through this as a family.
Meg says
My thoughts and prayers are with Karen, you and your family, kath!
Kori says
I have you all in my thoughts. I was so shocked when I first began reading this post. 🙁 Please tell Karen that I wish her a quick and successful recovery.
Danielle says
I’m a long time reader no a big commenter just wanted you both to know she’ll be in my prayers. Stay strong!
Angela (Oh She Glows) says
I’m so sorry to hear of the news. I will keep you guys in my prayers. Karen is so lucky to have you guys for support!
Amanda @ Wealthy in Health says
Karen is in my prayers, as well as you and your husband 🙂
Kate says
I’m so sorry your family has received tough news. I was diagnosed with Stage 3 melanoma back in June so I know how scary and sad it can be. Good luck to Karen with her surgery, recovery, and staging – she’s in my thoughts and prayers.
Jessie says
I’m so sorry to hear about Karen’s illness. I will keep her in my thoughts and wish her a speedy recovery.
Carol says
Thoughts and prayers are with you and your family!
Sarah says
Sending Karen and y’all well wishes. May the full hysterectomy be the end of it!
Casey says
All of you will be in my thoughts and prayers! I am glad it’s very cureable. Wishing Karen a speedy recovery!
kelly says
Prayers for Karen…and you and Matt!
Lee says
I’m sorry to hear about Karen. I will keep her and your family in my thoughts. I’m glad that the cancer has a high cure rate at least.
Melanie says
Lots of prayers for Karen who seems to be a fabulous mother-in-law/mom! My thoughts are with you all during this time. Stay positive.
Kath says
Thanks so much to you all! Your comments are much appreciated
Rachel says
First of all, my thoughts and prayers are definitely with Karen and all of her friends and family. Cancer is never an easy diagnosis. Second, I know this might be too late but I recommend asking Karen’s doctors about doing the surgery using the da vinci method – it is a fairly new surgical tool but it greatly reduces the recovery time and is much less invasive than the traditional or laproscopic methods. My mom had the same surgery this summer using the da vinci method and she was only in the hospital for 24 hours and was back to work within a week. The total recovery time was only about a month. I don’t know if this would be an option for Karen or if it is available at your hospital, but it might be worth asking about. Sending you all my very best wishes!
Kath says
It is probably too late, but perhaps that’s what they are doing?
Ashley says
Da Vinci is just a brand of laproscopic robot.
Mary says
My thoughts and prayers are with Karen and your family. Best wishes to her for a speedy recovery.
Angela @ Eat Spin Run Repeat says
Sorry to hear your news Kath. Karen and your family members will be in my prayers. I hope you have fun at the party tonight!
Paula says
I’m sorry to hear this. 🙁 Karen will be in my thoughts and prayers for a full recovery. Good thoughts for you, Matt, and the whole family, too, as you support her.
Fiona says
Another non – commenter coming out of the woodwork – sending you all a cosmic hug from Singapore. xx
courtney says
Karen, you, and Matt will all be in my thoughts! I’m so sorry to hear the news and will be hoping for the best for all of you. Give her a hug from your readers!
Katherine says
Oh, I got teary reading this. My best wishes are going out to Karen.
Rae says
I’m so sorry to hear the news. Incredibly, today I found out that my grandfather (who is young, vibrant, and just walked me down the aisle in June for my wedding) has brain tumors which are affecting his speech. They think they’ve been there for at least a year and the prognosis ísn’t good. It always seems that this news comes during the holidays, doesn’t it? Good luck to Karen and your family!
Kath says
Oh no…hugs back to you
Martha says
Our thoughts and prayers are with Karen and your family.
Averie (LoveVeggiesandYoga) says
I am so very sorry for this news, Kath.
Your MIL and your entire family is in my prayers and thoughts.
Katie says
Thinking of you and your family.
Katie O. says
I’m so sorry to hear that Kath & Matt! But Karen is lucky to have such helpful loving children to take care of her. Thinking of you guys and thinking very positive thoughts…I am thinking that she can beat this.
Cara Craves... says
Blessings to you and your family.
Karen is lucky to have you and Matt to support her.
Simply Life says
sorry to hear…hope you get good news soon
Beth @ DiningAndDishing says
I’m so sorry to hear Kath :(. What a tough thing, especially so close to the holidays. How wonderful of you and Matt to be there. I’m sure it means the world!
KatieF says
Keeping Karen and your family in my thoughts and prayers!
Jen H says
So sorry to hear about Karen…my thoughts are with you all for good news!
Ester says
Hope everything goes well!
Annie@stronghealthyfit says
Thoughts and prayers for Karen.
That soup sounds dee-lish.
MelanieF says
My thoughts are with you and your family.
We just lost my husband’s father in-law (his mother was remarried) last week just before the holidays, there’s nevery a good time for bad news, but the holidays seems the worst time of all.
Kath says
So sorry to hear about your FIL Melanie
Paige says
So sorry to hear that. I’m sure it means the world to Karen that you and Matt are with her through everything. My thoughts are with you and your family!
Mary @ Bites and Bliss says
I’m so sorry to hear about Karen. She’s in our prayers and thoughts. 🙂
Chelsea @ One Healthy Munchkin says
I’m so sorry to hear about Karen. Best wishes to her and your family!
Karen says
I am so sorry to hear the news, Kath. Karen will be in my prayers, for certain. Hugs, Karen
Marisa @ Loser for Life says
Saying prayers for Karen, Kath. 🙁
Shane says
I think this is my first time posting on a non-doll or teddy bear post, but I just wanted to say I’m sorry to hear the news and you are all in my thoughts. Karen is fortunate to have such a wonderful family and I am sure you are providing the best care!
Tina says
I’m sorry about your unfortunate news, especially during the holidays. I wish your mother in law and your family all the best. I will keep her in my thoughts.
Dee says
I will be saying prayers for Karen too, Kath. 🙁
Kristen says
So sorry to hear about you MIL. She is in my thoughts and prayers. Hopefully you will have good news after her hysterectomy.
Liz says
My prayers are with your family and Karen especially. Hope her surgery and recovery go well.
lauren says
praying for your mother-in-law, you & Matt.
Sandy says
Praying for Karen during this difficult time..and also Matt,Andrew and You..I’m glad she is living near by, and you’re able to help out! Take care!
Joceline says
Wishing all the best to Karen! As a med student in cville I know that the UVA gyno-onc is GREAT! I hope everything goes well, hang in there!
stacey-healthylife says
I went through cancer testing a few months ago and I know how scary all of this is. I wish Karen and all of you lots of luck and love. Best wishes.
Mandiee says
I will definitely keep Karen and your whole family in my prayers! Love is the best medicine, after all.
Have a lovely day!
xox
lauri (RedHeadRecipes.com) says
Hey girl, Sorry to hear the news- but glad to hear that you guys are in good spirits! I will keep you in my thoughts through the Holiday Season! Hope to hear good news soon!!
Tara says
My thoughts and prayers are with Karen, you, and your family
Krista (kristastes) says
Kath, so sorry to hear about Karen. I wish her all the best during her surgery and recovery and am sending thoughts and prayers to you both and your family. I hope you all enjoy your Christmas festivities before surgery day. Hugs!
Erin says
I’m so sorry to hear this, Kath. Please know that my thoughts are with you, Matt, Karen, and everyone else. Here’s hoping for an uneventful surgery and excellent news on the other side, along with a speedy recovery.
Kris says
Wishing Karen the best as she goes through surgery and healing. She seems like such a neat, strong lady. Thinking of all of you as you are supporting her!
Marg says
Praying for her! I have a feeling you guys will be positive through it all, and it really goes a long way!
stacey says
Sorry to hear about Karen. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. I hope that the surgery goes well.
Eileen says
I’m so sorry for Karen’s bad news! I hope that she does very well with her treatments. Prayers and positive thoughts to all of you!
Sara says
I agree with those who said they feel they know Karen through your site, it took my breath away when I read this. She is so lucky to have you both so nearby! My thoughts are with you all.
Erin (Travel, Eat, Repeat) says
I’ll certainly be keeping you and your family in my thoughts during this time, especially over the holidays when it’s important to remember how much I have to be grateful for.
Katy (The Singing Runner) says
Sending my best to your mother in law and keeping you and your family in my prayers.
Meghan@travelwinedine says
So sorry to hear this news, but hopefully the surgery will kick the cancer out for good. She is lucky to have family to help with things like taking notes; it is so hard to digest all of that info alone. I hope you can enjoy the holidays as much as possible and will have major reason to celebrate after Dec 30.
vegantickles says
My MIL was diagnosed the first week of November with Stage IV breast cancer. As a family we immediately changed her diet to a high raw vegan diet. As of last week she started the Gerson Therapy (at-home). I would recommended you research it. One thing’s for sure, DO NOT LET HER EAT ANYTHING WITH SUGAR! Sugar feeds cancer cells. These is my third time going thru with a family member. I lost my two older siblings to cancer. Wish I would have known then what I know now. My best to your MIL, you and Matt.
Alice says
I’m so sorry to hear the news, I was afraid those appointments were the scary kind. Sending positive thoughts to you Karen, Matt, & Kath. How fortunate that you moved to the backyard of one of the best medical centers in the country.
grocery goddess jen says
Kath, I’ve read your blog for years and feel like I know you and your family, Karen included. I’m so sorry to hear this news, but I sure hope everything is resolved or close to it after the surgery on the 30th. Will be sending good energy Karen’s way….
Lauren @ [email protected] says
I am sorry to hear the news about Karen! She will be in my thoughts…
Ilana says
All the best to you, Matt and Karen. Sending healing thoughts your collective way!
Susan Mc says
Kath, Matt and Karen,
You all feel like part of my family, so this is hard news to hear… but I want to say thank you for honoring us by sharing not only the good news, but stuff like this too. It says that you also see us “out here” as your family. Please know that you all will be in our thoughts and prayers … the KERF army will be joining you to claim love, healing and a speedy recovery for Karen.
Anne says
So sorry to hear about Karen! She will be in our thoughts and prayers for a successful surgery and speedy recovery!
Maria@ The Fitted Apron says
So sorry to hear about your bad news. My prayers and thoughts are with you, Matt, and Karen.
Danielle says
Oh Kath. You and Matt are in my thoughts and prayers!
Kristin says
Keeping you all in my thoughts and prayers. The oncology team at UVA is excellent. She is in good hands.
whitney says
I will PRAY!!
Laurie says
Prayers for Karen and your family. My Dad is in the hospital and had a large mass from his bladder removed. We won’t get results until next week to see if it is cancer. I hope it will be good news for Karen and my Dad.
Kath says
Good luck to your dad
Kel says
I will keep you all in my thoughts!
lena says
Healthy thoughts for Karen.
Kinder says
Sorry to hear about Karen – hope things heal well!
Sof says
I’m very sorry to hear the news, Karen will definitely be in our thoughts and prayers. She is lucky to have you both so closeby!
Sheila says
Oh Kath. Good to hear that she’s in good spirits. Makes such a difference. Hugs to you all.
Katie says
Kath,
My family and I send Karen and all of you guys thoughts and prayers, lots of love to all of you and I will be saying prayers xo
Namaste Gurl says
SO extremely sorry about your mama in law– continuous prayers on my end 🙂
Chelsea says
Wishing all the best for Karen! She, you, Matt, and your brother-in-law are in my thoughts! She seems like such a wonderful woman who has raised two great boys and gets to have a special relationship with her daughter-in-law. I hope today was the worst news and the rest will be good.
Chelsea
michelle says
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family…
M says
Dear Karen,
Sending you lots of positive vibes and a huge thumbs up as you kick this cancer to the curb.
You are a lovely part of this blog family and we all appreciate your presence here.
Hope you are feeling well and I can tell you are a smart woman with lots of strength
(just a feeling I have!) so can’t wait to hear when you eventually get your clean bill of health-
may this be as swift and easy a journey as it can be and the very best of health and speedy recovery to you!!
Hugs from all the readers!!! XOX
Rachel says
Praying for a positive outcome and keeping Karen and your family in my thoughts!
sarahMTSBB says
I’ve spent a lot of time in hospitals between my career and ill family members and was really impressed with UVA… rest assured that she’s in great hands! I wish her good news and the speediest of recoveries. Just don’t joke with her if she’s on morphine while recovering from surgery- when my mom had her hysterectomy a few years ago my sister and tried to lighten the mood by telling her about our encounter with a middle aged creepy guy mowing his lawn shirtless in their neighborhood who gave me the eye that day…”Mom! You’ve been hoping I’d meet Mr. Right and I did!”…and she believed us! 🙂
Gina says
All the best to Karen in her surgery & recovery!
Sending lots of strength her way, and I’ll be sure to keep her in my prayers!
Justy2003 says
So sorry to hear about Karen’s diagnosis. As a genetic counselor that deals with cancer patients daily, I know that many times the diagnosis is hard on the entire family, so I’ll be thinking of you all throughout this process. Best wishes!
Paige @Running Around Normal says
I’m so sorry to hear this! My thought and prayers are with Karen and you and Matt!
Amanda says
Praying for Karen, your husband and you. My mom works at an oncology chemo center which I visit her at some and it always breaks my heart when I hear about someone being diagnosed with cancer. You guys are strong and Im praying for the best results after her surgery.
Carrie says
Kath-
My mom was diagnosed with endometrial cancer two and a half weeks ago. She had a total abdominal hysterectomy last week Monday. It was a very trying time, so I totally know what you are going through. She is recovering slowly but surely. It is definitely slow going. Just be there to listen and help her out with the lifting and the cleaning, etc.
Kath says
Good luck to your mom Carrie
kate says
Sending positive thoughts to you, Matt, and Karen!
April says
What horrible news to hear but I am glad Karen has such a supportive and nurturing family to surround her. I hope things go well and will keep her in my thoughts!
Laurel says
Sending lots of good health vibes! Best to Karen and to your family, Kath.
Josie @ Skinny Way Of Life says
I’m so sorry your family had to get this news, you’re all in my thoughts and prayers!*hugs*
Kristin D says
Keeping Karen, you and your family in my thoughts and prayers.
Jessica @ The Process of Healing says
I’m so sorry to hear that but I KNOW she can fight it… she and you and your family and friends will be in my thoughts and prayers.
Roseanna says
My prayers are with your family.
Lauren says
Keeping your family in my prayers…
Jennifer says
I will keep Karen and your family in my prayers. Wishing her a speedy recovery!
polly says
Kath,
I’ll be praying. Hugs to Karen. XOXO
Hannah says
I’m so sorry to hear this, and am sending as many positive thoughts your (and Karen’s) way as possible. Thank heavens it’s a treatable cancer – well done to Karen for keeping her spirits up.
J3nn (Jenn's Menu and Lifestyle Blog) says
My thoughts are with Karen! Here’s to hoping for a full recovery!! 🙂
My grandmother had cervical cancer when she was 38; she’ll be 71 next May. There has been so many advancements in medicine, I have confidence in the right doctors. Maybe Cancer Treatment Centers of America is an option? Please advise her to seek doctors that practice traditional AND alternative medicine. There’s a lot of fantastic, knowledgeable doctors and health-care workers out there!
That soup buffet looks awesome. Be well, Kath. You, Matt, and his mom. 🙂
chelsey @ clean eating chelsey says
My prayers are definitely with karen and you and matt. As horrible as it is, you are so blessed to have all moved so close to each other so recently!
Raewyn says
I’m so sorry to hear that – definitely keeping Karen in my prayers! She seems like such a sweet, caring person. 🙂
Laura (Starloz) says
big hugs
M says
I’ll be thinking of you and your family. 🙁
carrie says
Sending Karen, and your family, positive and loving vibes from snowy massachusetts!
Liz says
Keeping all of you in my thoughts – glad to hear that you all have a great attitude about it – it really makes a difference!!
Maria says
Keeping you, Matt and Karen in my thoughts. She’s such a lovely woman, you have a great mother-in-law! <3
Lauren says
I’ll be keeping your family in my thoughts and prayers!
Sarah @ See Sarah Graduate says
So sorry to hear that. Karen and your entire family will be in my thoughts.
Christina says
Sending lots of good thoughts and prayers for a speedy recovery to you guys!
Jess says
My thoughts and prayers are with your mother-in-law.
Anna @ ciaotochow says
Your family is in my thoughts and prayers…sending love from Wisconsin!
Laura @ Sprint 2 the Table says
Sorry to hear about your MIL. All my best to you guys this holiday season. I’m crossing my fingers for a speedy recovery!
Jil @ Big, City, Lil Kitchen says
My uncle was just diagnosed with prostate/bladder cancer this week – and he has surgery coming up in late January. Karen is most definitely in my thoughts and prayers.
Kath says
Best to your uncle Jil
Benji from Twin Oaks Tofu says
Wow, I hope everything goes okay in the upcoming few weeks. You all will be in my thoughts.
Lauren says
I am so sorry to hear that unfortunate news. As a longtime reader, I can tell that Karen is a wonderful, sweet, and extremely generous woman. She will definitely be in my thoughts and prayers, as will you, Matt, and the rest of your family.
Ashley says
Keeping your family + mother-in-law in my thoughts. Good luck + take care. All of you! xo
Jasmine @ Eat Move Write says
Your MIL is in our thoughts. <3
Stephanie says
I am so sorry to hear this news Kath, my thoughts will be with your family during this time and praying for a successful surgery.
Lauren @ Fun, Fit and Fabulous! says
Your mother-in-law will be in my thoughts and prayers all week.
Sam says
So sorry to hear that. UVA has amazing doctors. I am a patient at the high risk center because my mom has had ovarian & breast cancer. I love all the doctors here.
Melissa @ I Never Imagined says
Oh no… I’m so sorry. I have no doubt that Karen will kick that cancer’s butt 🙂 she’s an amazing woman!
gina (fitnessista) says
keeping you guys and karen in my thoughts and sending lots of prayers, good vibes and love your way.
she’ll beat this thang, i know it.
<3
Jenn says
So sorry to hear the awful news. I will keep Karen and all of you in my thoughts and prayers. I did want to say that I had surgery to remove a tumor in 2001 at the UVA medical center and they had/have such a great and knowledgeable staff. Karen is in good hands there.
Alaina says
All my best to you, Matt and Karen. You all will be in my thoughts and prayers.
Melissa says
Praying for a speedy recovery and that Karen is healed of this aweful disease! May God Bless you all during these tough times.
Lyn says
Sending many healing thoughts for your mother-in-law.
Diana says
Oh Kath! I’m so sorry to hear about Karen! I’ll keep her and you guys in my prayers and think positive thoughts for you guys. *Hugs*
Christine says
You are all in our families thoughts and prayers! This made me sad to read, as I too feel like I know your mother in law through reading the blog. Hugs to all of you . . . she is lucky to have you two close by to support her through this.
Melissa @ Delectable Living says
Wishing Karen and your family good news next week
Suzanne says
Sending lots of good thoughts and prayers your way.
Leila says
Good juju going out to Karen. Hoping for a speedy recovery in January!
Liz says
My prayers are with you and your family…words like “cancer” and “stages” and “treatment plans” can be really scary. Also dealing with the tremendous influx of phone calls and notifications/updates to be sent can be overwhelming. Unfortunately for me, but, fortunately for you, I know of a website that is specifically for people that are going through something just like this where you can post updates and families and friends can post comments and well wishes. I am aware of this site because my sister (who is pregnant) was just diagnosed with stage 3 melanoma cancer and my brother-in-law (my sister just had their 4th son on the 16th) was just diagnosed with stage 3 sarcoma. This website has been so wonderful for our family in that the same update or health information or needs don’t have to be repeated over and over and over again. Their time at home can be spent resting instead of answering the endless call of well wishes, prayers, thinking of you calls that can now be posted and read at their convenience…and read again and again when they are feeling low and need to “hear” an uplifting word or two.
I will add you and yours to my prayer list and wish you all a very happy holiday!
Liz
Liz says
So sorry, I guess the website name would be helpful! CaringBridge.com
Best of luck!
Chris says
Will keep your mother-in-law in my prayers.
Ashley says
Karen, Kath, and Matt–I am so sorry. Reading the blog and not knowing you personally is kind of like reading a story, and Karen always comes in as a positive character with a smiling face. I think the biggest thing that will pull her through this is the right attitude and it’s just apparent that she has it. As a nurse, I’ve seen many patients recover from hysterectomies. I’ve got to say–the biggest post-op annoyance is gas pain. So have her out there walking in those halls at least 3 times a day minimum. And, as long as she’s not too uncomfortable, the less pain meds the better. Toradol is a great non-narcotic pain med that post-op hysts love, and should be ordered. The fastest seemingly effortless recovery I ever saw was from a patient (with hypertentsion and diabetes!) that swore by papaya, papaya, papaya prior to surgery. And lastly, if things get hairy in the coming months, remember that Western medicine is just one modality. After working at Duke, Johns Hopkins, and UCSF, I’ve seen the limits of where it’s at now and know it’s only a small idea of what encompasses the human condition.
Gigi says
My heart goes out to your family, and I am sending positive thoughts to Karen.
Ellie says
Hi Kath! I’ve been reading your blog for a while now! 🙂 that’s crazy~I had an impression or feeling that something might have been going on with Karen, and now I know why. I pray that God would have His perfect will in her life and I know she’ll be alright. 😀 be strong Kath!
Julianne says
She is so lucky to have you in her life! Best wishes for a speedy recovery.
Becky J. says
I’m really sorry to hear about your MIL. My mom was diagnosed with lung cancer in September, so I know how hard and scary it is. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. Take care!
Aimee says
I’m so sorry to hear this. Sending many positive thoughts and prayers Karen’s way this week.
PAM says
KATH,
MY THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS GO OUT TO YOUR MOTHER-IN-LAW. HOPEFULLY EVERYTHING WILL TURN OUT JUST FINE. I’M GLAD THAT SHE HAS YOU TO HELP HER OUT. TAKE CARE.
Shannon says
I am so sorry to hear this. Cancer just sucks. Karen and your whole family will be in my thoughts.
Julie says
I read your blog daily, but never comment. My mom has cancer too. My heart goes out to Karen and the rest of your family. I will keep her in my thoughts and prayers.
CMae says
She must be grateful to have such an attentive daughter-in-law and wonderful son close by. I’ll keep your family in my prayers. You two are such a blessing to Karen!
Kim King says
Sending up some love and prayers for Ms. Karen from Alabama.
Annelies says
Hi Kath,
I usually never comment, but I just want to say that my thoughts are with your family. It must be hard to hear this diagnosis. It’s good to see that Karen is so positive and that she is supported so well by her family!
Take care
Amy says
I am so sorry to hear this news. My mom has cancer (has had it for 3 years) and it is brutal – but an above commenter said that the early days are the worst, and I agree. Hang in there. It will get better.
Anne says
I will be saying my prayers for Karen over the holidays. Crossing fingers for a speedy recovery and good news to follow. All the best, Anne
Tiff says
I will keep Karen in my prayers. I am sorry to hear the news. I hope everything goes okay next week.
Alma says
I am so sorry about these news……you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. Hang in there! Your MIL will make it through this:)
Chrissy says
Just wanted to add to the chorus of well-wishers. I want Karen to know that there are many many people out here praying for her recovery!
Bekah says
Hi Kath,
My mom went through endometrial cancer, as well. I’m happy to report she’s doing just fine. Hope the same is true for Karen.
All my best,
Bekah
Sara says
Kath,
I read your blog everyday and feel in a weird way like your a friend! I am so sorry to hear about your MIL diagnosis. I will be sending lots of prayers and good thoughts to Karen, you, and Matt. Stay strong and stay positive!
Lauri says
My thoughts and prayers are with Karen, you and Matt. My mom was diagnosed with breast cancer on this same exact day 15 years ago and she beat it, she also had a hysterectomy. The recovery will be tough but she will get through and she is lucky to have you and Matt close by.
Elisabeth says
Very sorry to hear about Karen! Tell her & your husband all of your readers are sending them well wishes!
Amy says
Very sorry to hear that news, esp during the holidays. But she has quite the wonderful family and friends (and a whole virtual world) sending well wishes her way!
Stacey says
Team Karen! I have been following (stalking) your blog for some time but I do not often comment. You blog is very inspirational to me in my journey to get healthy. Your beautiful life light shines really bright along with Matt and Karen and this is what will get you all through this tough time. So I will be keeping you all in my positive thoughts as you have helped me greatly as well. Thank you and keep your positivity flowing.
Brittney says
Awww, I hope Karen will be ok! Sending positive vibes her way!
Heather says
I’m so sorry to hear about Karen. We’ve also learned that my Grandma-in-law has brain & lung cancer. It’s do devastating as I’m sure you know.
You will all be in my prayers, Kath!!!
Merry Christmas!
Mary Lou Baker says
I am so sorry to hear about this. I will be praying as well for Karen. All of you are such positive people and that will make all the difference. Hugs!
Kate says
Thoughts and prayers to your family, especially your MIL! Best wishes to Karen for a speedy recovery!!
Natalia - a side of simple says
Please tell Karen she is in my prayers, especially during this Christmas season. My heart goes out to you and your family, Kath.
KellyC says
My prayers are with Karen.
Elizabeth says
Hi! I’m a lurker and love your site. I’m old enough to be a mom to most of you here but I love your energy and running posts. I’m 51, a 5th Degree Taekwondo and started running last year- I love it!
I had to have a partial hysterectomy late last year and wanted to extend my support for Karen. There is an AWESOME site called Hystersisters.com which is chock full of info about hysters (what to expect, ladies post questions and others with experience provide answers). It’s an amazing support network and it helped me tremendously! Very calming and made my entire experience go smoothly. Knowledge is Power.
I wish her well and I will keep her and your whole family in my prayers.
Merry Christmas and a Healthy, Happy and Prosperous New Year!
Clare says
Blessing of love and strength for you and all of your family!
Christine says
I usually just lurk, but wanted to extend my thoughts and prayers to you and your family. Our family went through something similar and I truely believe that a positive outlook and laughter can help in times like this. Best of luck to your mother in law!
RachelSD says
Kath, hang in there and enjoy the holidays with your family. My mom had uterine cancer in her mid-40s that was completely resolved with a hysterectomy. (Symptom was bleeding.) You’ll be an excellent, patient nurse- just remember, as others have said, laughter really is the best medicine. We have lots of cancer and other medical problems in our family, and we try to just laugh at whatever comes our way. (Even if that means spending the day at the ER on Thanksgiving day like we did four weeks ago.) Praying for your family and the medical team!
JennyA says
I haven’t posted in a really long time but just wanted to extend my thoughts and prayers to your mother-in-law, Karen. She seems very kind in all of your posts and I hope for a speedy recovery! Happy Holidays!
Amber K says
I will be praying for her. What a hard thing to go through, especially during the holidays which should be a fun time. I don’t have anything else to say except that my thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Shannon (A Better Me) says
My prayers are with you and you’re family. I’m sure she’ll make a speedy recovery 🙂
beth grossman says
all the best wishes to Karen and you guys; she is lucky to have such excellent caregivers and supporters. she seems like the best mil in the world,too!
Lisa Fine says
Sending my thoughts and prayers to Karen and your family this time of year.
Karen says
postive outlook and great doctors she can beat this. Your in my thoughts, have a blessed Christmas and I’ll be thinking of you all on the 30th
-Karen
Clizia says
Sorry to hear about Karen, will be praying for you as well.
Kristine says
Thinking of you and your family this holiday season! Cancer is tough news to hear but the good news is endometrial cancer is very treatable! My grandma had it three years ago and is doing great now…no sign of cancer.
Having been through this with several family members myself (and being a nurse), I can offer advice or simply a listening ear. Let me know if I can do anything.
We Wildcats have to stick together! 🙂
The Healthy Apple says
I’m so sorry to hear this news; you and your family are in my prayers. Keep your head up as you are in my thoughts and prayers.
Best,
Amie
MaryB says
All the best to Karen. She has the power of Kerf readers behind her!
Betty says
Kath, I haven’t commented in very long time, but still read your blog every day. Karen is very lucky to have a strong friend like you! It’s very important to have someone with you to these visits.
I was diagnosed with a rare ovarian cancer at 37. It can happen to anyone and symptoms are vague. LADIES, PLEASE SEE A GYNECOLOGIST ANNUALLY! I can not tell you how many people tell me how they haven’t gone in years for one reason or another. I don’t think I’d be here if I had not talked to my doctor when I did. So, make sure all the women you love go once a year!
Courtney says
Kath, I’m thinking of Karen and you! Between you, Matt and the rest of your family, she has an incredible support system and I’m sure that she will pull through fine. I will keep you all in my thoughts!
Thealogian says
Karen, sending you healing energy and resilience. You will be in my thoughts.
Sunya says
Kath…sending good thoughts to Karen and your family. I know she feels blessed to be surrounded by love and loved ones as she starts her journey. Thank her for sharing and blessing to you all this holiday season.
hemp jogger says
ok, i’m just now catching up on last week’s blogs (we all know how the holidays are), but just had to express my thoughts and prayers to you guys. god bless karen, and all of you. i’m certain they will take great care of her. she’s a strong, beautiful woman. i know she’ll be healthy for years to come 🙂
Ffion says
All the best to your mother and law. I’m sending you positive thoughts!
Nicole (soundztastee) says
I missed this post last week, will be keeping Karen in my prayers for a safe surgery and a speedy recovery!!
Heather D says
Oh, wow. Somehow I missed this. I hate to hear it. Karen seems like such a neat lady and fabulous mother/mother-in-law. My thoughts, prayers and positive thoughts are with you guys!
Sarah says
Warm wishes and happy thoughts to Karen, and to you and Matt for taking care of her. Wishing her a speedy recovery!