As we navigate the new normal of having our kids home all.the.time. we must adjust our systems and rhythms for tidying up as well. Keeping a clean house with kids around is no small task. I know I’m not the only one who feels like for every one toy, crumb, or misplaced item I pick up two are placed in its spot. Here are some of my tips for minimizing the daily mess and cleaning as I go.
5 Tips For Keeping A Clean House With Kids
1 // Teach them to pick up as they go
One of my house rules is that we must tidy up one room before we move to another. If we’ve been playing in the living room, we have to straighten it up before moving to the basement. Occasionally we leave toys set up (like our trains) if it’s something elaborate, but all small pieces must be picked up. I believe that modeling is the best tool here. This might take 10 years but every bit helps. I always offer to help the kids clean up their toys when they’re finished playing, but I don’t do it all for them. We sing the “clean up clean up” song as we do it, and I do think that helps Birch understand what’s going on. I’ve noticed he will tidy up a batch of toys (or tupperware!) after he’s splayed it all out on the floor. Mazen knows the only rule for building a fort is that he has to put the couch back together before the day is done, and he’s old enough now to do it by himself.
2 // Have great storage bins and toy zones in your house
This post elaborates on our toy zones. As with any organization project, you must have more storage space than you do things. If you have too many things, you either have to donate some or buy more space! I try not to have our toy bins overflow. Toys do get moved from one zone or room to another, and when things start to overflow, I thin them out and tuck some of the toys away in the boys’ closets. I try to do some toy rotation too, to increase excitement when something “new” comes back out. As I mentioned above, we always pick up one zone before moving to the next. I LOVE these bins from Amazon – they come in a bunch of different designs and colors. They have held up well, and are lightweight enough that they can easily be moved.
3 // Don’t let them carry around food
The number one way to have a disgustingly dirty house is to let kids wander around with sticky, buttery hands and drip food all over. I have a firm rule that my kids sit down while they eat. Occasionally I break my own rule and will let Birch have a dry food like cereal in a cup and I will find Cheerios for weeks. It only takes one grease stain on the couch to ruin it forever. Despite the rule, Mazen has ruined the arm of our couch closed to the dining room table. It killlllls me. I try to contain the grease as well as I can.
And if they do drop crumbs, rely on your robot vacuum!!
4 // Get a cordless vacuum
Remember Dustbusters?! The first generation of cordless vacuums. When I think of the sound of my childhood, I can see my mom on her hands and knees dustbusting the house. Mom used to dust bust crumbs all.the.time. We are lucky cordless has evolved to high-power vacuums that you can stand up to usse. The Dyson Cordless Absolute vacuum I have will give you total sticker shock, but it gets used multiple times a day, everyday. Whether it’s crumbs under the high chair or grass tracked in from Mazen and Gus, there is always something to suck up. I love how fast it is to bring out, and I can do my whole main floor in about 3 minutes.
And if your budget allows, a robot vacuum is a life changer! Read my Shark Robot Vacuum Review.
5 // Define some systems so you don’t get behind
Here are some of mine:
- We run the dishwasher nearly every evening, and emptying it is the first thing I do when I get up while Birch is in his high chair having breakfast
- We do one load of laundry per person per week. I usually don’t mix people’s clothes because it makes sorting and putting away much faster.
- The kitchen counters and floors get wiped/vacuumed at the very least each evening before we close the kitchen and start the dishwasher. Usually this vacuum involves our whole kitchen + living area. The bedrooms and family room don’t track in that much floor dirt so we do those much less often.
- Bed linens and towels get changed and washed once a week, usually on Mondays
- Floors get mopped once a week, usually on Sundays
My cleaning lady is literally the best money I spend all month. She is a cleaning dream team and gets gunk out of cracks and brings a high power vacuum that gets everything I can’t with my daily cleans. Until recently, she took care of most of the deeper cleans. While we’re all on quarantine, she’s not coming to our house, and we’re doing the cleaning ourselves. It sure makes me appreciate her that much more! I will have to figure out some new systems for the deeper cleans for the time being. More on that soon!
Look at that sweet post-nap boy!
Bonus: get a dog!
Gus licks up almost all of the food that Birch drops off his high chair. Game changer!
Julie says
My house would be sooo much messier if I didn’t have a dog. But it would also probably be cleaner, LOL
Kath Younger says
Haha #truth!
Andrea says
My dyson cordless vacuum is one of my favourite things in the entire house! I also have a roomba i7 which I love dearly – expensive but worth it.. And a cleaning person who comes every 2 weeks…so other than light tidying I don’t spend much time cleaning. having an only child also helps! Can’t imagine the mess doubled. My dog very sadly passed last year and I can say the house is MUCH cleaner without a dog, but I’d take the mess to have him back any day!
Kath Younger says
I had a Roomba at one point, but it always got stuck under things and destroyed more work than it saved. I do want to give one another try sometime. And I’m sorry for the loss of your dog <3
Amanda says
These are great tips – although I’m a messy person by nature, I love your clean house tips because they are so practical and specific – very useful!
Kath Younger says
Thank you! They come from the heart <3
Mom says
I wonder if I set a good example or a bad one with all that dustbusting. I used to wear out the knees of my jeans.
Kath Younger says
Haha. I would say good!
Charmaine Ng | Architecture & Lifestyle Blog says
Thanks for the tips, Kath! Have a great day! 🙂
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Lori S H says
I think I need to review these steps with my two college sons that are currently home…I feel like I”m running a laundromat, restaurant, and entertainment center.
Kath Younger says
Hahaha
Carla says
Ok, I really don’t know if it works on grease but there’s a cleaner called folex that supposedly gets rid of allstains. Maybe try it out. I think Lowe’s and amazon sell it.
Kath Younger says
I have tried that before on carpets and it was just oK. I haven’t tried on the couch yet!
Meghan says
I miss my cleaning lady 🙁
But I love the Roomba. With three kids in and out all day and no dog to eat the crumbs, my floors are a wreck. The Roomba feels like I did something (but really didn’t). Ours gets stuck under one of our couches about 50% of the time. It was always a fun game every evening to see if it made it back to its Home, and if it didn’t, search for it. Now that we are home all of the time, it makes me crazy that it seems to travel randomly with no pattern! I do love to lock it in the mud room. It does great in there. I used to have to pick up the rugs, shake them, and then broom/swifter.
Great tips in this post Kath!